Archive - March, 2011

I Want a Rug

I feel like our living room is in desperate need of a rug.

I think it needs a pretty big one, though, like 8×10, and inexpensive rugs just aren’t easy to come by at that size. Also, I haven’t really bought very many rugs in my lifetime and I’m not really sure what to look for or what I like. I’m afraid I’ll make a really expensive mistake.

I researched rag rugs and started to crochet an oval rug with fabric scraps, but I’m not really loving the look so far. And I think I’ve mentioned before how poorly I do with projects that can’t be completed in one sitting.

So back to the drawing board. The only thing I feel confident about is the size: it should be between 8×10 and 9×12. I also feel like it should maybe be neutral? I’m thinking gray or taupe, but I think I could handle a pattern with blues, greens, pinks, purples, or yellows. I’ve heard that patterns hide stains better than solids, and that jute or sisal are too scratchy for babies (which we plan to have someday), but also that putting down a blanket can solve that problem. Scratchy knees aside, budget is the biggest issue. I’ve been crying myself to sleep at night wondering whether I’m going to have to forego the thrift store for two months just to save up for this rug! I’d really like to spend under $200 if possible. It’ll be like the third most expensive thing in the room.

So, I guess the takeaway here is that if I’m serious about getting a rug, I need to do some more research. Step one: look at tons of pictures to figure out what I like and what I don’t. Here’s a quick roundup:

Stacey Costello Design eclectic family room
Stacey Costello Design

Umm, love. I actually have one of those green damask-y pillows (from Pier 1). But should I actually do an animal print rug? I love the look but worry it may be too trendy for a big-ticket item.

Black and Yellow library with recessed flat screen eclectic family room   Jacobs Design, Inc.

You can’t see much of the rug here, but I like the muted tone and simple, nature-inspired pattern.

New Construction eclectic family room
Kristin Petro Interiors, Inc.

This rug looks so soft!

Knot On Call eclectic family room
Blue Sky Building Company

Again, I’m digging the nature-inspired look

Farmhouse Den eclectic family room
The Painted Home

This rug would be the perfect no-nonsense foil to all the saturated painted furniture in our living room.

Feels like Home... eclectic family room  Kelly Lautenbach

There’s not even a rug here. I’m just in love.

How to Motivate Your Husband (or yourself) to do Housework

Nick’s pretty good about housework. He washes his own clothes, picks up after himself, and even cooks and does the dishes most days. I’m a lucky lady! But there were a couple of chores that just weren’t getting done as often as they needed to. I think in every house there are a few tasks that nobody likes to do, and we both needed a little motivation. So I took a tip from my work and designed a behavioral intervention, also known as a chore chart.

I got a $5 dry erase board from Office Depot, used tape and a permanent marker to mark out a grid, and wrote in our most-hated chores. Whoever does the chore first gets to put their initial on the board, and the winner at the end of the week gets $5 fun money. Nick didn’t want the reward to be monetary, but that was the only thing I was willing to work for, so he works extra hard to win every week just to keep that $5 from being spent.  Nick’s a pretty competitive guy. He’s essentially doing chores for frugality and glory. But I’ve only scooped the kitty litter about twice in the two months or so that this has been going, so I say we all win.

Some more info on how it works: Harold’s cage only needs to be cleaned once or twice a week but it’s kind of a pain, so it’s worth three squares. Everything else is worth one point. And although our other married friends have told us this is unheard-of, we separate our laundry. So whoever washes the no-mans-land loads like towels and bedding gets a point on the chart. This system works pretty well for us

Thrifty Find of the Week

This week, the Man-Clutter Collecting Station:

This is the top of Nick’s dresser, and everything here was scored on the cheap. The silver tray was $3 and the small silver bowl, which I mentioned a few weeks ago, was $2, both from Goodwill. They’re like a dynamic duo for catching scraps of paper and spare change. The hammered brass bowl was found at an estate sale for $8 and corralls much of the larger clutter Nick pulls from his pockets.

The biggest problem is paycheck stubs, which he receives weekly. It’s like there’s a constant stream of little green and white papers piling up and falling all over the place. So I got him a little plastic envelope to keep in the bowl and file his check stubs in. But as you can see, we’re still tweaking the system. At least they’re contained.

The wood “N” was $1 at Goodwill. It was really gross and dirty when I found it but I sanded it down and painted it a (hopefully masculine) mustardy yellow with some craft paint. The print is actually a notecard I bought at a local arts and antiques shop (Circa 1857) and put in a $5 frame from Dollar General.

Baton Rouge Nite Life, Bryan Federico, 2009

One of my favorite tricks is to put notecards in a matted frame. They’re usually only $3-$5, compared to $15-$30 for an only slightly larger print with a mat. And since they’re usually 4×6 or 5×7 it’s easy to find a matted frame to fit for cheap. My favorite place for frames is Ikea, hands down. They’re so inexpensive and I love the look of the black Ribba frames. Here’s the kicker: there’s no Ikea in Louisiana. This causes me more heartache than you may know. Happily, we have lovely friends in both Atlanta and Houston and visit pretty regularly, so every six months or so I’ll stock up on frames and other necessities. In a pinch I’ve also been really happy with Bluebag, a company whose tagline is “We drive to Ikea Houston so you don’t have to,” and will deliver my hearts’ desire of Ikea goodness to my front porch for 20% of the purchase price.

If you prefer the look of wood-grain frames or just aren’t willing to go to the great lengths I do to get my lovely Ribbas, Dollar General is my second favorite spot for matted frames. They’re, like, five dollars, and I do like to mix up the frames in our home to create a more collected vibe.

See the Ribba frames in action, showing off wedding pictures on our staircase:

Dining Room

Have a great weekend! It’s almost the end of the month which means I’ve almost got a new budget to spend on thrifty goodness! I’m so excited!

Our Front Yard and Porch

Now that everything is green again I’m excited to share some recent pictures of our front yard and porch! The picture on the house tour page is actually from the listing when we bought the house, and a lot’s changed since then.

Then:

Now:

The biggest change is that we tore out the two big holly bushes and monstrous clump of ginger. Because while it looked pretty good in the listing picture, this is what we actually inherited:

That ginger was not looking so hot. And it was just so crowded in there! So we tore it all out and I planted some hydrangeas. The thing is, though, that the hydrangeas found it a bit too sunny there and they were always begging me for water, so I moved them out and moved in some aspidistra. I know these tiny little clumps look pathetic. I’m planning to bring in some more the next time I see them at the nursery.

I’m really new to this gardening thing and just basically learning as I go along. I moved the hydrangeas to the other side of the yard where they’ll get more shade from the oak tree. It looks really sunny here, but I promise it isn’t. This picture was taken at about 6pm, when the sun was really low in the western sky and no longer shaded by the oak.

You may also notice that the middle hydrangea decided not to rejoin us this spring. Oh well, two out of three ain’t bad.

And speaking of our oak tree, here she is:

I love her. This is how she looks from our upstairs window:

Makes me want to build a treehouse! But I’ll settle for the next best thing, our front porch:

I love this space. I’m particularly attached to the swing because my PawPaw made it for my parents when he still did a lot of woodworking and they generously passed it on to me. I gave it two coats of exterior semi-gloss in Valspar’s base white.

So here are my hopes and dreams for the front yard and porch:

  • a big window box full of colorful annuals under that double window that overlooks the front yard
  • plant more aspidistra under the window box!
  • replace the two sago palms flanking the steps with a pair of gardenias
  • paint the porch floor and front steps gray
  • paint the porch ceiling and front door a soft aqua
  • bring in a big round pedestal coffee table
  • add lots more potted and hanging plants
  • add two more sweet olives in the little side yard to screen the view and make everything smell delicious
  • move the mailbox from where it currently hangs on the fence up onto the porch. Our mail is always getting wet when it rains but I feel like I need to get the okey-dokey from the mailman before making him walk all those extra steps every day (our neighbors have theirs on the porch so I think the idea is not outlandish). Nick and I are both usually at work when he comes by so we’re waiting for a chance encounter.

So there’s our front yard and porch! I’m feeling a little inadequate looking at these pictures of last year’s grass. Any cheap and easy grass secrets out there?

P.S. I noticed in the pictures above that it looked like my hanging plants were hanging at different heights and, sure enough, the one near the rocking chairs was 3-4 inches higher than the other! But I couldn’t figure out why. Funny, I look at those plants every day and never even noticed until I saw them in a picture. I’m going to try to forget about it so it doesn’t bug me every day.

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