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Eating In on the Cheap

If you’ve been following along for a while, you know that I left my full time job last year to spend most of my time home with Jack. And even though my new part-time job pays much more per hour we are not exactly rolling in the dough these days. Breastfeeding (free) and cloth diapering (cheap) have saved us a ton of money in the baby department, but our budget was still not where we’d like it to be. Nick and I took a look at our spending and realized that one of our favorite things–eating out–was robbing us blind. As much as I love a delicious, completely indulgent restaurant meal, I’d rather eat at home than put Jack in full time childcare. Some rearranging of our priorities was in order.

Nick has been pretty much in charge of grocery shopping and cooking for the last few years. There were a lot of beans and rice involved–and a lot of eating out. Late last year I put on my grown up face and decided to start cooking again. But you know I don’t do anything without a plan, right? I spent several days that I should have been getting ready for Christmas pouring over recipes, meal plans, and tips for trimming the grocery budget. And in the end I came out with a four-week rotation of meals that are sure to please my picky husband and use roughly the same inexpensive ingredients. Behold:

Week One
Red beans and rice
Burgers, sweet potatoes, broccoli
Shrimp stir fry with mushrooms and veggies over pasta
Steaks or pork chops with red potatoes and veggie

Week Two
White beans and rice
Pasta, meat sauce, veggie
Salmon or other fish, sweet potatoes, veggie
Baked chicken with mushrooms, sweet potatoes, veggie

Week Three
Red beans and rice
Beef stroganoff, veggie
Salmon or other fish on skewers with smashed potatoes and veggie
Stir fry beef with veggies and rice

Week Four
White beans and rice
Chili, veggie
Seafood, mushrooms, veggie
Roast chicken or beef with sweet potatoes and veggies

Backup
Grilled cheese and tomato soup
Breakfast for dinner

It’s been going pretty well so far. So well, in fact, that we haven’t even made it to Week Four because Nick keeps requesting repeats of what we had the week before. And there are enough cheap meals mixed in that if I need to cut the budget one week, say if I spent too much the week before, I can cobble a couple of them together along with one or two of our “backup” meals that we always have stuff on hand for to make for a really inexpensive trip to the grocery store. My goal is to spend $60/week, but I went over week before last so on my last trip I only spent $28.

To help me stay organized, I got an app for my phone that is basically the digital equivalent of a spiral notebook. I usually use the standard Notes app to jot down lists and reminders, but I wanted to keep all my grocery stuff together so a free app dedicated solely to food endeavors seemed like the way to go.

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In it I’ve got an easy recipe for white sauce to use in recipes that call for “cream of _____” soup (it’s just butter, flour, and milk), a list of which veggies are best to buy organic and which are just as good grown the conventional way, a very much still in progress index of how much stuff typically costs so I can judge whether a “sale” is really a good deal, a running list of what I plan to buy on my next trip, my four week meal rotation, a quick reference of what extra ingredients might be needed for specific meals (buns for burgers, sour cream for stroganoff, etc), a basic list of stuff I buy almost every week, and a list of items we only buy every few weeks but definitely need to keep in stock, like pet food, toilet paper, and bread. That last list on its own has been a total life changer! Now I quickly run around the house, phone in hand, checking to see if we’re out of anything before walking out the door and bam–no more mid-week runs to the store because we’ve run out of something essential.

Another thing that has really helped is having a specific day that I go shopping every week. I googled it and found that Wednesdays are typically the best day to buy groceries, and in fact that is the day that the new sale ad takes effect at my local store, but I’ve found my store is not so organized and lots of stuff marked for sale is not yet out on Wednesdays. So Thursday is the sweet spot of already stocked but not yet sold out.

Which brings me to my next point–I check the sale ad online before I go! My meal plan is flexible enough to buy whatever meat, seafood, or produce is the best value that week. And if something is buy one, get one free, I buy an extra and freeze it.

The only thing that’s not working out so well is the seafood. It’s expensive, even in a coastal state like Louisiana. What I need to do is find some guy on the side of the road selling shrimp and buy a bunch and freeze it. But I haven’t yet. I tried to talk Nick into taking up fishing (free food!) but he was horrified. He said he wouldn’t be able to kill a living creature, even a fish. I think it’s safe to say that if we had to live off the land he would learn to embrace a vegetarian diet pretty quickly.

And have I mentioned that I don’t exactly shop at the cheapest grocery store? I have a bit of an issue with Walmart and choose not to shop there, so for now I get my groceries at Albertson’s instead. We are supposed to be getting a Trader Joe’s right down the street from our house (the first one in Louisiana), so I’m excited about checking out their store brand selection, but I’ve heard their produce selection is not so great. Guess I need to start getting my lazy butt out of the house on Saturday mornings to visit the farmer’s market!

So that’s what we’ve been doing to cut back on our food budget. Eating out is somewhat of an addiction and we still fall into the temptation now and then, but at least now it’s never for lack of good stuff to eat at home. My new thing I’m thinking about is to cut my shopping trips in half by only going every two weeks, but I can’t figure out how people keep produce fresh that long! Are you a bi-monthly shopper? Spill your fresh veggie secrets! And of course any other cheap-eating tips are welcome, too. I’m hungry for knowledge, pun intended.

2012 Year in Review

Twenty-twelve was a big year for us! I made lots of progress in growing my blog and shop, left my job, Jack was born, and Nick got a promotion. I thought it would be fun to take a moment to look back at the highlights of the year before February rolls around and I embrace 2013 in earnest. Without further adieu:

January–we announced that we were expecting, worked on the office, and installed a new light fixture above our stairs (just went back and read that post and wow, that whole situation is a lot funnier in retrospect).

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February–planted my vegetable garden, got a new look for my blog and shop, made our first purchase for the nursery, found out we were having a boy!, and celebrated a year of blogging

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March–described a typical day in my life (I should do that again since my life is so different now!), figured out what the living room had always been missing, got a plan together for the nursery

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April–celebrated my birthday, continued working on the nursery (we painted, ordered fabric, put up curtains, installed a new fan, and made over a thrifted dresser), celebrated two years in our house, and changed up the look of my blog yet again

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May–went to the beach, kept trucking along on the nursery (the highlights: a cushion for the rocking chair, yellow table, crib skirt, DIY mobile, sunshine sign)

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June– I left my job, finally finished the wing chairs (with a little help), finished the nursery with a small rug, some DIY art, and a pair of blackout shades, celebrated our third wedding anniversary, and HAD A BABY!

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July–began treating Jack’s hip dysplasia…and that’s about it! I was a little engrossed in motherhood, haha.

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August–got a new rug in the living room, ditched Jack’s harness, lived through our first hurricane as homeowners

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September– took our first vacation as a family of three, Nick got a promotion, we celebrated his birthday, and I started working part time, and I updated my how-to, about, and house tour pages

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October– we visited Houston (and Ikea!), worked on organizing the front room with DIY chalkboard bins and a fabric-covered box, and dressed Jack up as a tiger for his first Halloween

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November– I got a new camera!, prepared my shop for the holiday rush as I celebrated one year in business, and opened my blog up for ads

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December–we decorated for Christmas, I wrote about all my favorite baby stuff, simplified my gift wrap routine, DIY’d a Christmas card, celebrated Jack’s first Christmas, bought a set of lockers for the front room, and Jack turned six months old(!)

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Whew! What a year, huh? It’s crazy how much can happen in twelve months. I’m anticipating 2013 to be a little bit less exciting–the birth of a child is hard to top–but probably just as busy and full of joy and laughter. Happy Monday, y’all (and MLK and Inauguration Day!). Jack is in the throws of his first ever cold and we are feeling pretty sorry for ourselves over here, but we’ll survive, haha.

It’s Friday Friday

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We are just chillin’ here at the Tryforos house today. No projects, no appointments, just our weekly lunch date with my friend Cassie and plenty of low-key hangout time. It feels like this has been the longest week of all time. Jack has been sleeping great at night but naps have been tough, and I don’t know if it’s the cold weather, teething, or what, but he’s been super clingy. My back is still hurting from when I slipped on our porch steps last week (awkward. How old am I? 87?) and it’s hard for me to hold him all day. Also, since I started working again he’s been refusing to take a bottle on the one day a week he’s with a sitter, so I’m scrambling to teach him to use a sippy cup before Tuesday rolls around again.

On a positive note, the sun is shining, it’s Friday, and at this very moment there’s a sleeping baby in my arms. I’d rather he nap in his crib, but I takes what I can get. On the agenda for this weekend are a few organizational projects, some quality time with Nicholas and our good friend the television set, and maybe swinging by an estate sale in my ‘hood. Eh, and I guess I’ll pull a few weeds if I feel so inclined, since Mother Nature did such a good job loosening up the soil with all the rain we’ve had the past two weeks.

What do y’all have planned for this weekend? I feel like such a Debbie Downer today. Hopefully some downtime over the next few days will recharge my batteries and I’ll be back to feeling cheerful come Monday. Otherwise, I’m just going to have to whip myself into shape! No moping allowed around these parts!

DIY Kraft Paper and Burlap Invitations

These are exciting times for my parents. Their first grandchild was born last summer and now, drumroll please, my sister is getting married! She said for the longest time that she was not too keen on ever getting married but now she’s tying the knot at the ripe old age of 26. Maybe next I can convince her that babies are not as much work as they seem (which would of course be a pack of lies because they are, in fact, a boatload of work. But so worth it).

Anyway, Shannon’s general avoidance of all things typical and to be expected extends to the bridal shower. She tried to convince us not to throw one, but seeing as how I am somewhat of an expert (having hosted several in recent years) and also quite excited to be seeing my only sibling married off, it had to be done. Step one: procure invitations.

I thought about designing them myself (like I did our Christmas card), but when I saw these printable mason jar invites on Etsy I could not resist. For $15 I got a high resolution digital file with custom wording. (the invites did include my address, I just thought it prudent to obscure it before posting photos online. You understand).

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Shannon’s going for a natural, rustic theme with her wedding decor. Think mason jars, burlap, etc. In fact, instead of hiring a florist she’s spent the last few months painstakingly creating hundreds of flowers out of burlap to use in the bouquets and centerpieces. All the food is being made by family and the venue has lots of natural wood and beautiful oak trees. I could have just printed the invites onto white cardstock and they would have been perfectly adorable, but I thought it’d be fun to bring in some natural colors and textures to match her casual-rustic vibe. So I sized the printable file to be slightly smaller than the intended finished size of 5×7, set it up to print two to a page, then cut pieces of kraft paper to feed through my printer. I also picked up a yard of white burlap at Hobby Lobby (about three bucks) and cut it into 5×7 pieces.

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I plopped myself down on the living room floor and set about cutting out each invite. Pistachio loves this kind of project. Scraps to play with!

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Pretty soon I had thirty pieces of paper and thirty pieces of burlap. And one very sweet kitty keeping me company.

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I had these adhesive lines left over from DIY’ing my wedding invitations almost four years ago. I was excited to finally have a chance to use them again!

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I cut the lines in half, peeled off the backing, and laid a piece along each edge of the paper.

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Then I just peeled off the other side of the backing, leaving four sticky lines.

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I double checked my burlap to make sure it had been cut nice and neat, then carefully pressed the paper invite down so that it was centered along the edges.

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Then each one got stuffed into an ivory envelope (about $6 for fifty of them at Hobby Lobby). They’re arriving in mailboxes across south Louisiana this week.

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It took me a couple hours from start to finish to crank these out, and I certainly could have made things easier on myself by just ordering some pre-printed, but I really love the way they came out and it was fun to let Nick watch the baby while I spent some quality time with my crafty side. Time to myself is in short supply these days, and even this morning as I was finishing up this post Jack was tired of playing by himself so I brought him into my lap, where he promptly leaned forward, hit the keyboard, and deleted everything I’d written. Ahhhhhh!!!! Thank goodness for autosave. And my resolution to stop swearing in front of him, haha.

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